Hi again. I hope things are better. I have two things.

First, I've heard that women need to feel love to have sex and men need sex to feel love---for what that's worth.

And, tell the counselor what you said here: You feel like brother and sister and you aren't sure that your husband even wants to be intimate.

The important thing isn't what your counselor says, it's what your husband says. If you don't think he's being honest with the counselor, tell him that...in session, of course. Save the emotional issues for sessions, where the counselor can help the communication.

We all want to see you succeed.