thank you very much and i am sorry you lost your dad too. i wish i can speak to my dad and my brother but i send them this address and phone number and pictures so i guess that is the best i can do. and for my mom and sister and niece all i can do is say how much i am sorry for expressing my feelings and let them know how much i love them. but you are right about grudges that seperate people and such, waste precious time. that i understand so well about. we should spend it with those we love, friends and familys and with our selfs. i try not to let things get to me but it is hard and it hurts. last night i was not sleeping good because everything is brothing me too much.. and it is heavy on my heart..