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((((((earthmama)))))
honey, it took me a long time to realise that i had taken up the abuser's role when the bad guys were gone away. they were gone and i was hurting myself.... i mean that is just wrong! you havebeen hurt enough for 2 lifetimes or more and i am hoping you will begin to see that truth and fight the urge to cut. it is a negative spiral and pushes you downward when you are doing so much to go upward and reach the sky.
i'm glad you got to T and that things calmed back down. your angry teen probably has 10 excellent reasons to be furious!
i hope your T or someone can show you how to help her get that anger out without hurting the body you all share. there are a lot of pillows to assassinate with plastic baseball bats!
take it out on them - not on your own body. i speak from experience that's not the way.
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  HEALING HAPPENS
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