Here is a similar question.....my soon to be ex wife has claimed that she REALLY wanted kids when we first got married, and she promised she was going to go to school. But thats another subject....

She is claiming now that she got depressed/mad/whatever at me bc i entertained the idea of starting a family with her before her going to school and then i noticed she started acted funny. Turned out she was cheating/seeing guys behind my back. I've looked through the internet and thru this site and it looked like she had 90-95% of the symptoms of HPD. THe only one was that she didnt like to be in the spotlight with groups, but rather with guys. she would always talk to cashiers about her ex bf's and such and i told her that shes married....bfs are bfs....im your husband

im curious now if she has a combination of the two and maybe me not starting a family sparked it to full blown sorta speak