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Old Nov 05, 2008, 09:24 AM
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Originally Posted by EJ711 View Post
Digdug,

I'm sorry your parents just don't get some of the basic principles of parenting.

My parents were good people, but lousy parents. My mother has been gone eight years now, and I still can't get her out of my head.

I'm so glad you got things worked out on your own.

EJ
Thanks for your support.

I used to think that my parents were good people/bad parents as well. And I guess I still believe that more or less, but I'm getting sicker and sicker of havying to deal with their anxiety and obsessions as I progress into adulthood, and I feel that they at least owe it to me to keep such things in check when I'm in a time of severe crisis.

It's odd, becuase I feel like I'm making daily progress with my anxiety/OCD/depression issues, while I feel that they've barely changed since I was a kid. And, you know, I shouldn't be living my adult life to babysit their chidish behaviour.