Hi coper, welcome to Psych Central. Does your husband see a T at all or is he open to seeing one? When I first went to T, it was for something completely different than a dissociative disorder. Since you mentioned that he does realize there are some issues that he struggles with, perhaps he would be open to seeing someone for those? Do you see a T also? It might be helpful for you to get some outside support as well. I can't imagine how hard it must be for others to have to deal with us having DID. Please take care of you as well.

Good luck with everything and please keep us posted.