I told her not to hang out with guys until I can get comfortable with her doing it. Obviously I cannot do it while I am here in Iraq and she is there in VA. So I told her three things to do while I am here- 1. Continue School 2. Continue therapy 3. Stay away from guys (physically....calling....yahoo messenger/aim/ phone is ok but no physical contact)

If she was so scared about me leaving her.....why do what I asked her not to do?

Also it means that she cannot be a military wife. Nothing bad, not all women can do it though. It is hard enough on family's without PD's, let alone a young wife that possibly has one.