In one way I'm happy not to have that man touch me again, but in another way I am sick over what this has done to my boys. They are 15 and 16 now. I left when they were about 7 and 8. Now my 16 year old left me because he wants to live with his day. His dad is a Psychiatrist. I have to deal with hearing my son say he hates me everyday. Last year he wanted nothing to do with his dad. I've had him in therapy and now he's seeing a neurologist. I tell my son on the daily basis that I love him. He never returns the sentiment. I cry day in and day out. My ex told me yesterday that he is going to make my life a living hell and this divorce was over 6 years ago. He's very vengeful and uses my children as pawns in his sick little games. There's not much I can do. I do have residential custody but being teens they didn't want to leave their school so we are stuck with this creature. Think about every angle. Be very quiet and cunning whenyou are making your plans. These ex's go psycho.