Hi coping;
I don't know what to say to make things better, but he is trying his best and he doesn't understand what you're going through. He maybe feeling the stress of the loss of money coming in, but doesn't want to upset you, so he tries to keep it inside, but every so often he snaps.
Have you thought about seeing a counselor with both of you attending, that way you both can talk about things and there would be a buffer there if needed? A pdoc has a way to make people talk sometimes, so that maybe what you both need. He maybe going through some depression himself and it's just coming to a point now.
I hope things get better with both of you, it can be hard.
Cindy
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Cindy
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