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I think I've figured out what has brought on this depression. A couple of months ago my husband went to the doctors because he was experiencing low energy. Turns out that he had low testosterone levels (male hormone) and would need testosterone shots. The shots started about 2 months ago. The shots increase his sex drive and he's much more physical than he was before the shots. I don't like being touched very much and have been very stressed because of this change in my husband's behavior. I spend a lot of time being angry at him and feeling irritated. I think the only way I've been letting out the anger though is in passive-aggressive ways. I'm not sure how to talk to him without hurting his feelings and having him feel rejected.

So I think that it is hurt and anger that's causing the depression. Bringing in my husband to see my therapist is a good idea and I will talk to my therapist about doing that.

I also think that I get depressed this time of year anyway (winter) so I'll also need to deal with those issues.

Thank you for giving me so much to think about. I don't know how long it would have taken me to put things together on my own. I feel better just knowing that there is a link that I can identify. It gives me hope that I can work on things and get out of this depression.

I did at least tell my husband today that I am dealing with depression and having difficulty doing daily things. He said he would help me in any way he could. And I know my therapist is there for me and that's a big help.

I am so grateful to have PC too. You all have been so kind and helpful. Thank you.