what are you doing on these sites anyways? it's a dangerous place for a thirteen year old girl, that's for sure. I would stay away from this because you're only going to get into trouble. I'm also pretty sure that a gay guy won't turn straight overnight either...so I'm sorry to say this, but don't waste your time with these guys. Concentrate on school and friends for now. The right guy will come around when you're much older and mature. Believe me, it will happen....