Personally, I would like to tell him it's not acceptable behavior and remove myself from the situation (I know that is hard to do). He may be hurting, but that does not give him the right to take it out on you. Please take care of you Kendyll. You could tell him that you are not going accept his behavior anymore. Then go take a walk, drive, something to get yourself out of the situation. You can tell him you love him and will be back.