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Originally Posted by Sannah
Your response didn't sound mean at all.....
Crying or a happy dance are you only choices here? Come on...
I would suggest that you focus on what you are going to do about yourself. No one can ever control what others do but you can certainly take care of yourself and manuever about around these people. Focusing on them and if they are right, wrong, nice or mean just distracts you from focusing on the work that you need to do with and for yourself...
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This morning, yes, those were my only choices. I was still too hurt. I am still very, very hurt. I don't care if he's right--he's right in everything he does--in his mind. I
do focus on me. I have come such a long way in the past few months...at least
I think I have, and that's what matters. Right now what I'm going to do about myself is get through the rest of today, with the same hard work ethic I've had forever, work from home tomorrow per usual, pack on Saturday, then Sunday, Monday and Tuesday sit in my hotel room in New Orleans (I don't feel safe going out alone) and come Wednesday, put even more effort in my people skills, even if it is just fake and inside I'm dying because I can't handle it, I will. Thank you for your push to work and focus on me. I know I need to.
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