Hey Lost!! I hope I can help you.

You can be co-councious with only some alts and not others.
I am mostly co-councious with my alt Pip, co-counicus I believe diffrent for everyone..for me it feels like Pip is always present..I can hear him and he comments on things..if he takes over I am there, most of the time, and I will rember almost everything that happens.

You are not crazy hun, it is okay, no question is a bad question, you have to ask questions in order to learn!! I had, and still have lots of questions over DID and alters.

(((((((((((((Lost))))))))))))))))

Always here if you want to talk.
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