Well, it's hard to say what will work for you and what will not. Though, I think if you give him sufficient time to think, and continue to make your presence known as well as your feelings for him, then that may work.

If you continue to play the hard to get game, he may well just believe you've finally lost all interest and move along.

I really don't know. I do know that relationships are two way streets. All blame can not go one way. Neither can the happiness, y'know?

If he truly believes that you're to blame for something (and i'm not saying that you are) just hear him out and keep an open mind about what he's saying and if it makes him feel better, even if it's not true.. admit you're wrong and apologize. As long as he does too, you're good. In a relationship, pride belongs not!

Compromise comprimise comprimise!