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Old Nov 07, 2008, 05:50 AM
Anonymous29412
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(((((((((((((((((((((((((Sunny)))))))))))))))))))))))))))

I'm so glad you had a good session, and left feeling connected. T and I have sessions when we laugh a lot, and they feel so good. You needed that

Can I challenge you a bit? I am asking this with absolute care and respect. You said that "it feels safe to be upset at the team", but not your H. I am wondering if you don't feel safe being upset with T? That maybe somewhere in the transference you are replaying a behavior left over from your marriage? I know you weren't upset with T in the here and now, but you had some very strong feelings this week...your feelings were hurt by T's behavior...but you never let on to him how you felt. I could be totally, completely off base, and feel free to tell me to just shut my trap!!

I AM so glad that you had a good session. You had a rough couple of weeks and totally deserved some relief. You and your T have a great connection, and it's always nice to read about your sessions.

Thanks for this!
sunrise