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Hello all,
This is the first time I've ever talked about this, so bear with me.
My Husband and I have been together for 14 years and married 10 and we have 3 wonderful children. When I first met my husband he was in the military and I new that his family seemed to always be in an arguement. It's almost like they enjoy it. On the other hand, my family is sooooo not like that. We get along pretty good. Not to say that we are perfect, we have our issues, but all and all, we are a happy family.
Well a few years after I had been married to him I started to see him changing. I thought it was because he was discharged from the military, and he missed it. He was having a hard time findind work. His moods were up and down.
Now, to make a long story short, he is VERY short tempered. He will snap in no time. This morning I was leaving for work, and I woke him p so he can be awake for our two year old, and he said that I was nagging him and that I needed to stop, then started SCREAMING at me. Not a way I rally want to start my day, and I really don't want my kids to hear daddy screaming at mommy that way. I tried to quiet him, but I couldn't. Basically he said "If you are so tired of me then you know what to do" It killed me inside. Today has been misserable. I love him so much and he is hurting me so much. i know he loves me too, I know that sounds crazy, but I know he does. I have suggested to him to go to Anger Management, but he shoots the idea down. I really don't want to leave him, but I don't want my kids growing up listening to him yell at me, and I don't know how much more I can take.
Any advise?
Melissa
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