Hey hun. i have GID. i'm an FTM. it is absolutely scary to come to terms with an even scarier to come out ( i haven't told my family yet) there are many varying degress of transgenders... crossdressers, androgynes, transexuals, transgenderists, bigendered, and ppl who just haven't figured it out. if you'd like the info for a website that might be helpful send me a messege and i'll give you the link. HUGS