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Old Nov 08, 2008, 04:31 AM
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So, yeah, I get confused. There are times I have walked into his office and asked if he is my therapist or coach that day.
This is just the route I would take in addressing the email issue. There was a time that I couldn't tell when it was ok to contact T and when it wasn't and when she was not responding because she felt I could handle it and when she didn't know I needed the contact. We spent a good part of a session on this, and set some ground rules that have really helped us.

Oh does your T have a secretary or office help? Perhaps you could leave a message with them? It might help to have a special code word that you both know he will respond to, like when you 'dropped' the lawyer's name?

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I can just get swept up in the joy of seeing him. I can't help it, and when I am with him, I don't want to.
I know just what you mean here, I have had awful days but just hearing my T call to remind me of my next appointment brings a smile to my face.
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