Hi Sunny,

I have really struggled also with the choice between staying in the here and now and choosing whether to address some old stuff.

Maybe what you needed was the session you gave yourself. T always says to me, "What do you need right now?" And it sounds like you needed to connect in a deep way to T and so you did. Now, having experienced once again the deep attachment you know is at the basis of your relationship, you can address the hurt you experienced last week.

This reminds me of my son when he was little. I used to travel quite a bit for business and when I came home he would have a hard time reconnecting with me. He would sit away from me and he made me work for the hugs I knew would re-unite us. Then later in the day he could be naughty or misbehave, knowing I was there to love him (or give him a time out-lol)!

Sigh. Therapy is GREAT!!!!!