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Originally Posted by sunrise
It's just so hard when we've been apart for a long time to resist the joy, and I guess I'm weak. I like having some joy in my life once in a while. I think many of you are stronger than I am.
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I don't know if I would consider this a weakness. It sounds like to are allowing yourself to take what you need most from the therapy session. Last session was to put other stuff aside for the moment and feel the joy that goes with being deeply connected to someone.
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I actually don't think I have an "earlier insecure attachment problem." The problem in my marriage wasn't that I attached to my H insecurely, but that he wouldn't let me attach to him and he didn't know how to attach himself.
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Great insight!
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"Joy is your sole's knowledge that if you don't get the promotion, keep the relationship, or buy the house, it's because you weren't meant to.You're meant to have something better, something richer, something deeper, Something More." (Sara Ban Breathnach)
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