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Originally Posted by lilyann
It has been awhile since I have been here. I started a new job and will start another teaching college soon.  I have considered what has been said so have suggested to my husband that we go for long walk - he has not agreed yet as he is angry again and locked me out of the bedroom - so tiring - and I will address: his finding a doc.
maybe different meds would help
can't go on like this - life is too short.
But this will be so difficult because he says,"I know more about depression than the people treating it." He defends his self medicating and misreads everything I say - so we will see. THANK YOU ALL FOR YOUR RESPONSES. |
Well I calmly talked to my H and suggested that there are new meds or maybe more effective meds because I think some of our problems are related to his unhappiness. I mentioned that communication was often a problem in marriages paricularly if there is depression and he needs to get a doctor or we need to talk to someone. He said I was using his mental illness against him and that the problems were mine- that I was so angry all the time - yet He is so angry.
If I show concern - he says I am angry. If I am amazed it is anger.