she called while i was at work and left a nice message. she apologized and said that she hopes i'm doing well and taking care of myself. she said she's been thinking about me. she made an attempt to connect and she apologized that its been so difficult. when she was getting ready to hang up she said, "hang in there hun". her message got me through the day. i called back but she wasn't there. it is difficult to connect right now but i know that she was trying and that we will eventually.