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Originally Posted by DutchGirl
They tell me I shouldn't do it. Although I am not a Christian anymore - I left the church and religion a long time ago - these morals keep hunting me.
Why do you ask SeptemberMorn?
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Because if you have your Christian beliefs still in your conscience, that will be what speaks the loudest, Hon. For myself personally, I don't believe that a well bonded relationship was supposed to be "poly" anything. One man, one woman. Anything else would cause problems in many areas. I think some of them have already been brought up on this thread.
I may be wrong, but my feeling is that your boyfriend doesn't want to commit to a monogomous relationship for whatever reasons of his own. To me, it's like he wants his cake and eat it, too.
The biggest thing to consider, though, is how YOU feel about it.
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Psalm 119:105 Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.