Sunny, it is so great that you had a connected session. It sounds like you and T have connections in so many areas. I do hope that at some point you're able to address the issue of his not getting back to you. It really was causing you a lot of pain last week and seems like it might help you break a pattern of not standing up for yourself (sorry if I'm out of line here, just remembering things you've posted about in the past). Maybe it would help to remember that by bringing it up you're not starting an argument with T, you're exploring your feelings and how his actions effected you.

No matter what you decided to do, it sounds like T was really there for you in the divorce meeting. Yah!