Hi, Melissa, welcome to PsychCentral (PC). Does your husband have any friends that you know/trust? Or maybe some guy in your family he likes/admires? Maybe another guy could see what's going on or help advise you.

It could just be the effects of having trouble finding a job; is he working very hard at that? It might be he'd be "better" once he gets one but doesn't sound great that he's screaming and not apologetic about it, etc.