agreed. (((((((((((em)))))))))))) i too had the same reaction with group t "I'm fine!" she said, "i know you're "fine" but are you safe? are you ok to drive? can i call someone for you?"
It is hard to not put those walls up... to not be "fine" when we are so used to doing it. I'm here too if you need someone to sit with.... little one is safe, even tho it feels so scary.
kiya