Sannah I know you mean well and have had difficulities wiht your mother growing up, but I am not her, I have quite openly admitted to my Narcissim....but I am getting a bit tired of having brought up every time I am trying to express my feelings about something..yes its proberbly discribes quite well why a lot of people have trouble with object consistency, but labels in themselves are quite useless and say nothing ....I am on the narcissim radar but not right out there on it...its not all of me...its not the answer to all my problems...having my feelings heard will do a lot more for me then having the label NPD brought up and up...sorry ...