What is it about all of us,,men and women,,that makes it easier to trust those we Love with our anger,,rather than our vunerability.
Why do we view anger as strength?
Why can't we see that anger never solves any problem?
Why is it so very hard to admit being afraid?
Anger is fear...dressed as a knight readied for war...
I know it is frustrating Melissa..governments are perplexed with the very family problem you wrestle with...
When he yells tell him you Love him no matter how difficult he tries to make it...
Ask him how he would handle you with such a display?
And when you are afraid,,like now,,,show him how to share fear without anger...tell him all you know about it...
With care,
Lenny
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I have only one conclusion,,and that is things change too quickly for me to draw them....
Sobriety date...Halloween 1989.
I was plucked from hell...and treat this gift as if it is the only one...
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