My friends at lunch bug me to ask out this girl who I like. They try to get me to ask her out everyday. I don't mind them doing that because I like her, but I also don't want to ask her out. She is also a friend of mine who I have liked for about 3 years now, and she knows I like her. She, though, likes this guy who just moved to another state, and she is sad. She is like the girl clone of me exactly, just looks different. I would feel bad asking her out because she still likes that guy who moved. Even though I am depressed and a relationship would make that better, it will only last so long before a break up. And that I would not be able to handle and yeah. And I want to avoid that. Should I ask her out or not? The first time she found out I liked her, I was rejected, and that itself was one of the reasons I became depressed and cut. And I don't want that to happen again.