Thanks for the suggestions everyone. I'm still not sure how I'm going to handle this.

It's more than just about the meds. It's WHY did she want to deceive me? It makes me question everything she's ever said.

One time on a message board she came in saying how she'd just read a long email and then got off an hour phone call and had to hear everything that was in the email, everything that was in the prior email, everything that was discussed during the last phone call and that her ear was tired. I replied back and said perhaps if she didn't want to listen to this person's concerns, she shouldn't keep calling. Then she wrote back to me personally saying she was talking about a different person. It was a crock of s h i t because that was EXACTLY what we had just gotten done doing minutes before she posted that message.

Right after that she says she lowered her phone plan minutes because now she has a "boyfriend" and doesn't spend so much time talking to other guys on the phone, doesn't need the minutes, and so won't be able to call me during the day but only at nights after 9:00 and weekends. She gave it about two weeks and then she started calling me during the day again. I just keep reminding her that she's calling me during her plan minutes and not free minutes.

This is so childish. I can't believe it.

She does this with other women too. Gets all up in their problems, keeps calling to see how they're doing, and then complains that it eats up so much of her time.