Although I know nothing of this type of transference (lol) I will comment on this post anyway.

Wow. Seriously, I can sort of feel the intensity of your feelings just from your post even though it is basically impossible to convey such deep emotion with words. Moments like those go so much deeper than words.

Sounds like total validation-- the parts of yourself that were hidden are now coming out because you trust him-- and he's responding by being gentle and caring.

We love your T. Yes we do.