(((((((((( maymie ))))))))))))))))
I agree with what has been said above, your family sounds toxic. The way I have dealt with my toxic family is to strike back, make it clear that you wont take what they are dishing out. I have set many boundaries with my family and now I am still trying to make those boundaries very clear, I know it can be hard it has taken me years to get to this point. The first step is to see what they are doing to you is wrong and is result of their issues not yours.