I think most women are just more sensitive and crying can be a good way to release your feelings. I know where you are coming from , I have done the same thing....then thinking am I the only one that cries??...I mean think of it as you could be doing something worse...you know... taking a deep breath would help me at times, and to focus my mind on ok, I am not gonna cry, I am going to say what I want to say in a rational way, and not cry.. It can work for you.. but hey, if you do cry, dont feel badly, its not that unusual in my opinion for women to cry.. I hope I have helped you on some degree... Katie