I feel the same way

I feel that I have been manipulated and lied to .... I have been told, WRONGLY.... what both my actions and motives have been. I even wonder if you and perhaps others perceive me as a "bad person".... but I have done NOTHING WRONG
The "bad people" in my life always told me how selfish and horrible I was...... only thinking of myself. Yeah right
an "unwonderful".... according to the "bad people"
Bear
PS imnsho there are some serious "boundary issues" on this thread. I need to take care of my OWN boundaries and disgengage. I do not have the desire or ability to PLEASE everyone.