I appologise for the gender mistake.

Yes this is true but cause is really not as important as solution. While the mind is in cause,,ie. blame, regret, remorse, shame, etc.,,,we allow ourselves to enjoy the warm contemplation of victimhood. Sometimes indefinitely.

My shallow point is that one persons hell is anothers heaven and to not see the Grace one enjoys regardless of circumstance impedes progress.

I am gratefull for every breath for in that breath anything is possible.

With Respect,

Lenny