((((((((((((((scared&stressed))))))))))))))))))))

I'm sorry for everything you're going through. It sounds hard and scary.


Do you think your husband would go to his regular doctor - GP, or PCP? That might be a less intimidating place to start than going to see a therapist or psychiatrist. The GP could possibly recommend some futher treatment, or at least get him started on some medication like anti-depressants.
If you think he is a danger to himself or likely to hurt himself you could always call the police, which I'm sure you know, and you could have him 302'd (admitted involuntarily). He wouldn't be too happy about that, but if you are concerned for his safety you might have no other choice.

I wish I had some better advice for you.
Best wishes, and I will keep you in my prayers,
ktgirl