I have had a couple of sessions where I have gotten angry with something my T had said that was way off. Something similar, where she might tell me what I want or need, instead of letting me express my needs and her acknowledging them. Expressing my needs to her, even in anger, in these situations has always been helpful to me and she was very very good about making it safe for me to do so. It has helped our relationship tremendously also for me to be straight forward about what I need and for her to truely hear me.
I hope that your T can do the same.
((((((ECHOES))))))
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Direct your eye right inward, and you'll find a thousand regions in your mind yet undiscovered . -- Henry David Thoreau
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