i never look at my t....instead i drift off into the big fake tree or the pix of yosemite....(overall i have a difficult time looking at anyone when talking)...

somehow tho even without the direct eye contact she can tell when i have drifted off into a major memory or just into another time zone and is able to haul me back

she mentioned once that the eye contact is important to her but she understands that i just can't do it (long story about evil parents and their evil friends and such)

its a goal of mine to someday be able to look her in the eyes for a session...oh hell for 5 minutes or even just a glance