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Old Nov 13, 2008, 02:30 PM
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I also have a real box (my T called it a 'containment' box) where I can put the things I can't deal with on paper and close the lid on them until it's time to deal safely with them. I put a picture from a magazine on my box. The picture is of a bank vault door closing. That imagery really helps me to understand what the box is all about. The door is open just a crack so I can retrieve issues when it is safe. You might want to talk to your T about using a real box - it doesn't have to be very big, just big enough to hold a few slips of paper. I find that writing down the troubling thoughts to be helpful. I think your T is on to something here. Good luck.
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"What is Real? asked the Velveteen Rabbit one day.

"Real isn't how you are made," said the Skin Horse. "It's a thing that happens to you. When a child loves you for a long, long time, not just to play with, but REALLY loves you, then you become Real."

"Does it hurt?" asked the Rabbit.

"Sometimes," said the Skin Horse, for he was always truthful. "When you are Real you don't mind being hurt."

-The Velveteen Rabbit by Marjorie Williams
Thanks for this!
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