SO this is really personal but I really really am starting to get worried. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half now with a 5 month old baby. Recently (the past month) he has not wanted anything to do with me. He used to come home from work and give my hugs and kisses and he would be intimate with me on a normal basis. Things have changed. When I told him that I would like to him to notice me and be intimate (sexually) with me, he said that he cannot because he's so tired after work and all he thinks about is going to sleep. But he said he would try. Well, his "trying" is him giving me a hug after work, only because i want him to. THen thats all. He goes to bed with a book at around 630pm. and he turns his back to me when he goes to sleep. this happens every night i am home. on the nights i have to work, he tells me he stays up until 9pm and he always masturbates. everytime i am gone. this really really irritates me because when he tells me that he doesnt ever think about sex and only wants to go to sleep, yet when i am gone, he finds time to do it himself and stays up later. i have not done anything wrong. i try everyday to make him happy and i do not understand what is going on. i do not tell him what to do or when to be home, all i ask of him is to be a boyfriend, not just a roommate, which is how it seems anymore. yet he calls me demanding because of that. am i out of line here? i would like to think im not. please anyone talk to me. i am hurting bad because i love him so much. i dont know what to do.