wi_fighter - Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry to hear about your daughter and her bruise. I'm 42 now but came from a rough childhood so I know a little about this sort of thing. I highly commend you for getting out while you can for your sake and the sake of the children. I hope you won't take offense to my saying this. I just had a really rough childhood and I'm sure your children will thank you for it when they get older. ((((((hug2u))))))