Hi Kendyll, I found with myself that I had issues with kids because I knew that I had to "give" to them and I didn't want to because no one gave to me. I was able to get over this I think once I was able to meet my own needs (so then someone did give to me!) plus I was able to get over my barriers which kept others at a distance from me so that I could start receiving from others. (It's a weird set up. You don't get what you need while growing up so you then keep people back so you won't get hurt but it keeps you from getting what you need so then you cannot give to others