Wow, 3 years! I've been dealing with it for 43 years. I just got serious with integration 1 year ago. I doubt it will be complete in 3 years.

I read the books...

Stranger in the mirror and another with mirror in the title, can't recall it just now but, I think that one is the one with the girl that was well after 3 years.

Hang on, it gets better.