I honestly just discovered this forum today...I must be kind of dim.

I'm sad people are getting upset with each other. I often use humour as well to cope with my issues, but that can upset people who don't. I hope everyone PMed each other and made nice...sounds like a simple misunderstanding, and we're all here to help each other.

By the way, I remember lying in my bedroom at 2 in the morning, in tears beacause I couldn't convince myself that my passport was indeed safely inside the envelope I had put it in in my desk drawer. This was after taking it in and out of the thing for hours. Dark days. I'm better now, but it can still be rough.