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Old Nov 14, 2008, 07:06 PM
SpottedOwl SpottedOwl is offline
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First, moving is a very stressful event -- even under the best of circumstances. So it might be difficult to determine whether it is the stress of moving vs. the stress of living together.

No matter what you decide to do with your boyfriend, I would spend as much energy as you can meeting other people and focusing on your own life. Pick up the phone, or use email to reach out to friends and family. Look to see if there is a group at school, or even a counselor at school you can talk to.

Bottom line, take care of yourself. The better you feel, the more support you have, the easier it will be to make good decisions for yourself.

One final note: Your boyfriend is an adult. I know you care about him, but you have to take care of yourself first. He may not be able to afford a place on his own, but that is NOT your concern. If you decide you need to live alone, he will adapt and survive.

HTH