Hubby is now having numbness and tingling in left and right arms, fingers as well as pain, Shoots up his neck to his face and into his thighs. He does not nearly understand what the minimal diagnoses means. I am trying to explain spinal stenosis with bony spurs very slowly. And of course it coule be a hell of a lot worse if we find a mass on friday. What the Heck is going on? Paid my dues, give love, act lovingly, care for animals and children, am a good samaritan, well, You are all right, it's not about me it's about the fact that crap happens and we need to deal with it as best we can. However, I will tell you that this is the most loving, kind, thoughtful, considerate, compassionate man you will ever meet. He also has DPD- ditzoid personality dosorder. I named it. He is a real ditz.