I do the "tap dance" too. I know for me people have thought I was wishy washy, lying, etc. It used to really upset me because I try so hard to be truthful. I used to think they were tricking me because they talked all this nonsense about me doing or saying things that I did not know I said or did. As I became more aware of what was going on for me, I became a better tap dancer, lol.

I have to say that there have also been times in the past that I have made up events in my life to fit in with those around me though. People would talk about some fun event, from childhood or adult and I never had anything to say about it because I just didn't have enough memory to know.

I do know that other parts of my brain see things differently and record things in their part differently.

It's great that you are so supportive of husband. I hope he can get the help he needs to heal and that you can get the support you need as well.