((((((( nowheretorun )))))))

I have known you for a long time now on these boards. Much wisdom comes from you and your positivity has carried me through many a time. I like your honesty in saying how it is.

I would like to say this though, from my point of view, enabling people is not always about agreeing with someone. Hugs and love are needed for people who never received that as children... but also an adult part needs to come in and say, 'For goodness sake get off your backside!' Yes, I have to be harsh at times in order to motivate those that have no motivation.

Thanks for your post.