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Old Nov 15, 2008, 08:16 PM
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Originally Posted by pachyderm View Post
When I was small my mother used to yell "Look at me when I am talking to you!" It was a threat.

This question (of being able to look at someone directly) is a very powerful one for me. I think I have some idea what it means but it is a bit too scary to examine it very closely. I think I will end up begging not to be hit.

I hate it when people say this. I have had T's say this to me when making a point they were saying it gently but I still had a problem with it and only once did I tell them that I had a problem with them saying it .

On the upside I did get a response from my T about my email to her about looking at her she said that she understood that I have a hard time looking at people and not to worry about her feelings.

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